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FINDING HOPE & CONFUSION AT THE SAME TIME – AND IN THE STRANGEST PLACES. THE DEBATE ON SAME-SEX MARRIAGE RAGES ON…

Thu Feb 3, 2011 12:00 AM EST
politics, gay-marriage, iowa, same-sex-marriage, zach-wahls, state-house-of-representatives, rich-anderson
By thesparetimes

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Zach Wahls offers inspired testimony before the Iowa House of Representatives during a public forum to debate amending the state's constitution to incorporate a ban on same-sex marriage.

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I'm speechless. After listening to the most heartfelt, succinct and constructive three minutes of testimony ever offered in a public forum (in my humble opinion) I learned that the words I've quoted below from an article in the Des Moines Register, were among those offered by the WINNING side of the argument. How can that be? I always hoped that the one benefit of getting older that I could look forward to would be increased insight, and an expanding ability to understand diverse perspectives. More often than I'd like, I seem to be stumbling on perspectives that leave me completely confounded and more estranged from my human family. I'm scared to imagine how many people I interact with every day who would find these words more resonant than the ones that left me awestruck and inspired. Don't worry - I'll send you to the compelling, inspired, "losing" argument too. Maybe you'll help me make sense of it somehow!

Okay…

As proof positive that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction, I'll leave you with the hope rather than the confusion:

Watch the YouTube video for yourself: ZACH WAHL SPEAKS ABOUT FAMILY

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Grisham

I live in Canada and we allow same sex marriages. My personal stance on the subject is that I think it's a good thing that we allow same sex marriages. Hell, love is hard enough to find and it makes no difference to me where someone finds that love. I've had gay and bisexual friends, and they were some of the nicest people I've ever chanced to meet. What they choose to do in the bedroom behind closed doors in the sanctity of their own house is none of my busiess or that of the government.

In my opinion, there are much more important matters that government should be discussing than whether or not two people who are in love want to share marriage vows.

  • 8 votes
Reply#1 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 12:27 AM EST
Hughmac312

there is nothing more contrary to the nature of god than the hatred of love

  • 3 votes
#1.1 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 2:54 AM EST
No One particular

Hell, love is hard enough to find and it makes no difference to me where someone finds that love.

My belief as well!! I am ever befuddled that so many people put so much angered effort into the love of 2 consenting adults. Why? I dunno, I cannot understand these people...love is love. Yea for all who find and experience it!

  • 5 votes
#1.2 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 7:38 AM EST
pjw-708550

Amen to all three of you. Folk seem to be a little obsessed with what their neighbors might be doing behind closed doors.

  • 4 votes
#1.3 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 9:28 AM EST
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Syntactic Tree

I'm not sure what you mean by the "winning" side. Yes, the Iowa GOP in the House passed the bill, but hopefully with Democratic majority in the Senate the bill will get no further. And even if it does, it must pass both chambers in two consecutive Iowa General Assemblies, so the earliest it would be on the ballot is 2016.

But, time is on our side. Eventually, equality will have the last say. Both of us might be long gone by then, but social change is not instantaneous.

One thing is for sure. As soon as we get rid of that dreadful Vander Plaats, the better Iowa - and humanity - will be.

  • 9 votes
Reply#2 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 1:07 AM EST
Hughmac312

God, or whomever, does not make mistakes or so those that profess to know his thoughts will tell you. Yet they deny the sanctity of god's greatest gift to us, love, to those that are different from what is considered "normal". Pure insanity.

  • 5 votes
Reply#3 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 1:20 AM EST
tax211hurts

Hugh,

What did you just say exactly?

You used the words 'deny' and 'insanity' rather oddly.

Do you know what you meant?

I used to teach the Bible to children, youth, and adults too. Explain yourself please.

I want to read it.

    #3.1 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 1:52 AM EST
    Grisham

    I think he meant that if God did not make mistakes, then love isn't a mistake and by extension homosexuality isn't a mistake, yet Christians want to prevent same sex marriage because religously, many of them believe that homosexuality is wrong.

    May be wrong on that, but I think that's what he meant.

    • 3 votes
    #3.2 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 2:03 AM EST
    Hughmac312

    thanks grisham that is what i meant. and tax 21 maybe you could teach children read, then maybe teach them the bible.

    How is deny or insanity used incorrectly? I have heard so many times how god doesn't make mistakes, yet religious ? believers preach how homosexuality is wrong, how could it be wrong if god is responsible for everything? same with evolution, didn't god create evolution? how many ways do you all want it?

    there is nothing, absolutely nothing, more contrary to the nature of god than the hatred of love

    • 4 votes
    #3.3 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 2:45 AM EST
    Grisham

    Hmmm because I'm bored at work, I'm gonna try to field this one Hugh.

    I have heard so many times how god doesn't make mistakes, yet religious ? believers preach how homosexuality is wrong, how could it be wrong if god is responsible for everything?

    If I were religous, my argument would probably look something like this: God gave you free will and allows man to sin. Homosexuality is a sin, much like murdering and adultery are sins (after all the God of the Old testament turned an entire city to salt because of homosexuality). Therefore, homosexuality is a choice and a sin against God.

    *wipes sweat off brow*

    It's also a good argument for seperation of Government and Religion. While I think religously you are free to believe homosexuality is a sin and churches shouldn't be forced to marry homosexuals against their beliefs, gay couples should be allowed to marry under the law of the land because religion should play no role on the rights and freedoms of the people, many of which aren't relious and that is their right as well as it is the right of those who believe in God.

    • 2 votes
    #3.4 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 3:00 AM EST
    Hughmac312

    tax211, on the same subject what religion is god anyway? christian, muslim, budhist...

    it is amazing how man's creation, religion, is responsible for so much hatred, ugliness, and evil

    when you teach your christian bible, the parts about love, compassion, brotherhood. do you teach your adults about how the native people of N. America were slaughtered in the name of Jesus? Do you teach about how the KKK would string strange fruit in trees on Saturday night then sing to jesus on sunday? do you teach them about all the evil commited in the name of god?

    Do you know 2 million, 2 million, Vietnamese died in a war based on lies, for this "God Blessed America" and how many Iraqis have died in another war based on lies?

    I can tell you what to do with your bible teaching.

    • 2 votes
    #3.5 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 3:02 AM EST
    Hughmac312

    Grish, i'm not sure about sodom and gomorrah being just about homosexuality,

    and if you have free will but that free will is coerced by religious teaching, then is it still free will or is it merely propaganda

    religion is, i believe, the manifestation of evil on earth. the conscience is the manisfestation of god in each of us. the louder your conscience the greater the presence of god. religion for reasons of their own promote evil, hatred, and acts of aggression. history proves that

    • 3 votes
    #3.6 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 3:09 AM EST
    Grisham

    Grish, i'm not sure about sodom and gomorrah being just about homosexuality

    That's true. But homosexuality was a big part of it. Homosexuals are also called 'abominations' in the Bible though.

    and if you have free will but that free will is coerced by religious teaching, then is it still free will or is it merely propaganda

    Interesting question, Hugh. I would say yeah, you'd still have free will. For example, I teach my kid not to lie. I tell him lying is bad and provide examples of why it's wrong, but when he moves out on his own he might become a liar. He has free will. Just because I told him it was wrong doesn't mean he will follow what I say.

    religion is, i believe, the manifestation of evil on earth. the conscience is the manisfestation of god in each of us. the louder your conscience the greater the presence of god. religion for reasons of their own promote evil, hatred, and acts of aggression. history proves that

    Well, I wouldn't go that far. There are a lot of good religous people who get branded for a few zealots. I think people miscontrue religion to fit their wants. Granted, there has been a lot of bloodshed in the name of religion, but I think that's human nature and religion is the scapegoat used in a lot of cases. If magically there was no religion tomorrow, I think wars would still be fought over other things.

    • 1 vote
    #3.7 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 3:52 AM EST
    trm2008

    . Homosexuals are also called 'abominations'

    So is eating pigs and shrimp, even straight ones.

    • 6 votes
    #3.8 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 11:40 AM EST
    Hughmac312

    Grish,

    I hold to my statement about religion. The fact that there are good religious people is not the point. It is what religions hold themselves up to be, how they are used, and what is done in its name. I'm spiritual not religious. Though I was brought up with Christian exposure and it is part of my fabric I certainly don't define myself that way.

    The lady that questioned my initial statement is a perfect example. I will teach children and adults my interpretation of the bible, but, I'll leave out some very important facts about it. It is not the word of god. It is the interpretations of men, written down after the fact, and colored by their training. I really don't remember Jesus being as hateful as my perception of Christians.

    It is the holier than thou attitude. It is the self centered assuredness that they are right to act and believe as they do. It is the encroachment of religion into our government, politics and military.

    Governments, laws, regulations, have been developed by man as societies developed to counteract the human nature you speak of, the inclination of man to do harm. It is fine when religious tenets influence these laws and regulations, but when they start defining them that is when evil reveals itself, because now rather than it being secular it becomes orthodox and then you have a religious state which is not good for anyone.

    The Vietnam War was fought in part because of the propaganda against "godless communism", the lies put forth much in the same way it was done for our present Iraq War, resulted in 2 million Vietnamese dying. To me that negates any good America is supposed to stand for. Why? Because of the lies, the ulterior motives, and the religions that sanctioned it. That is pure evil, to me it is the work of Satan (as defined by religions) it is camouflaged behind legend, fable, and the goodness of men like Jesus.

    Do you think Jesus would for a moment care about homosexuals? But the Satanists, that preach Chritianity use his name for evil. Again, hatred of love is evil.

    • 1 vote
    #3.9 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 12:49 PM EST
    Hippo Potamus

    Homosexuals are also called 'abominations' in the Bible though.

    Deuteronomy 22:5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.

    I am an abomination...I wear a men's flannel shirt...I am going to hell.

    • 1 vote
    #3.10 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 12:54 PM EST
    trm2008

    http://biblebabble.curbjaw.com/laws.htm

    I think you'll have plenty of company Hippo.

    • 1 vote
    #3.11 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 2:27 PM EST
    No One particular

    I am an abomination...I wear a men's flannel shirt...I am going to hell.

    If your flannel is of mixed fibers, you are in even more trouble...

    • 3 votes
    #3.12 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 3:23 PM EST
    Grisham

    If your flannel is of mixed fibers, you are in even more trouble...

    Holy crap that made me laugh!

    • 2 votes
    #3.13 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 9:41 PM EST
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    Uthaclena

    Hopefully we will add New York State to the roster allowing Marital Equality this year.

    It's no longer a question of "if," it's just a question of "when."

    • 6 votes
    Reply#4 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 1:35 AM EST
    Ripley8

    Grisham --

    the story of sodom and gomorrah was about gang rape ... a crime usually committed by straight men ...... a crime of hate and violence used to shame , violate . remember Lot offered his 2 virgin daughters to the crowd. So those in the crowd ?? straight.

    the bible never actually states homosexuality was the reason for it's destruction.

    Now this was the sin of Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy. They were haughty and did detestable things before me. Therefore I did away with them as you have seen.

    —Ezekiel 16:49-50

    Most educated theologians state the 'sin' was one of the lack of hospitality. Hospitality is still a huge tradition in the mid east.

    theories of the area's destruction range from earthquakes to a comet strike nearby and fall out from it. To blame it on sexuality ( or any reason for that matter ) is ignorant. It would be like blaming the people of New Orleans for the Hurricane or like some religious nuts have done blaming 911 as God's anger towards 'sin' like homosexuality. pure ignorance and fantasy. the thinking of the uneducated and paranoid. destruction from natural forces have gone on long before man ever lived. no 'sin' then.

    Clay tablet identified as asteroid that destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah

    Debris consisting of up to two thirds of the asteroid would have been hurled back along its route and a flash reaching temperatures of 400C (752F) would have been created, killing anyone in its path. About one million sq km (386,000 sq miles) would have been devastated and the impact would have been equivalent to more than 1,000 tonnes of TNT exploding.

    Dr Hempsall said that at least 20 ancient myths record devastation of the type and on the scale of the asteroid's impact, including the Old Testament tale of the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah and the Ancient Greek myth of how Phaeton, son of Helios, fell into the River Eridanus after losing control of his father's sun chariot.

    http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/science/article3649054.ece

    free will ??

    well actually free will runs contrary to the bible. Predetermination was the held belief until the mid 1800's.

    Biblical Christianity Denies Free Will

    ...If our actions and nature are determined by God, how can god blame us for those actions? The Biblical text runs thusly:

    "It does not therefore, depend on man's desire or effort, but on God's mercy. 17For the Scripture says to Pharaoh: "I raised you up for this very purpose, that I might display my power in you and that my name might be proclaimed on all the earth." [Exodus 9:16] 18Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden.

    19One of you will say to me: "Then why does God still blame us? For who resists his will?""

    Romans 9:16-19 [NIV]

    And that is the clincher; the ultimate question. Paul has asked "Is God unjust?" for its denial of free will, for its disregard for what our choices and intentions are. Paul now has a mortal present that same question. His answer is a shocker:

    "But who are you, O man, to talk back to God? "Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, 'Why did you make me like this?'"[Isaiah 29:16, 45:9] 21Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for noble purposes and some for common use?"

    Romans 9:20-21 [NIV]

    The answer is: Tough! God is unjust, simply because it can be! There is no justification, God makes some people "for noble use", chosen and predestined to do good works 'which God prepared in advance' 'according to his purpose'.

    http://www.vexen.co.uk/religion/christianity_freewill.html

    in this same sense 'evil' and suffering are caused by god according to his purpose. ( how many people always like to say 'everything happens for a reason' ?

    --also . not to get into it now but Satan never stopped serving god and is still an angel ( just has a really crappy job ( job for example .. needed gods approval before acting.) Lucifer is not the devil or satan ... but the king of tyre ( as well as a reference to being jesus in the book of Revelation ( which is a whole other myth subject ).)

    and hell ??

    'Hell' as an invention of the church
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SF6I5VSZVqc

    here it states God creates evil ...

    I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things. (Isaiah 45:7

    Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it? (Amos 3:6)

    Out of the mouth of the most High proceedeth not evil and good? (Lamentations 3:38)

    how ofter we say 'everything happens for a reason ' .... it very well could and free will be nothing more than an illusion.
    At any given moment we think we make a choice we can only choose one. the one we are supposed to choose in order to serve that purpose/plan/reason. we may think we change our minds and choose another but that is a different moment in time.

    • 5 votes
    Reply#5 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 9:01 AM EST
    Hughmac312

    wow, rip, thanks for the education, very interesting

      #5.1 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 12:52 PM EST
      Grisham

      Ditto what Hugh said. Nice post, Rip.

      • 1 vote
      #5.2 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 9:45 PM EST
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      Robert in Ohio

      I support those who choose this lifestyle even though my religion does not.

      The key is that my religion should not be driving the law.

      I want my religion out of government and the government out of my religion.

      • 3 votes
      Reply#6 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 1:00 PM EST
      trm2008

      The key is that my religion should not be driving the law.

      I wish more people felt that way.

      • 3 votes
      #6.1 - Thu Feb 3, 2011 2:28 PM EST
      Hughmac312

      thanks ohio bob, i concur

        #6.2 - Fri Feb 4, 2011 4:18 PM EST
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        Arad

        I wish I was a tenth as well-spoken as this young man. He was able to do something that is virtually unprecedented in recent memory: Utterly destroy the arguments of the opposition using the strengths of his own experiences rather than attacking his opponents' character.

        My only regret is that I wasn't there to see it. (I live within driving distance of the capital and I chose not to go because I thought I would just end up pissed-off if I went)

        Also, I'm -so glad- to see the GOP is so fixated on the important things like gay marraige, rather than frivolous things like, say, jobs. I am currently unemployed for over a month and a half now, reluctantly recieving help from my parents while I look for anyone who's hiring. I had to leave my previous job due to their stubborn refusal to hire more staff to cover the sheer workload the department was facing. My former department is now (to my knowledge) facing 60% staff loss due to those working conditions, I was just the first one to throw up my hands and say 'enough is enough.' /endrant

          Reply#7 - Fri Feb 4, 2011 3:40 PM EST
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